This Blog is Dedicated to Shelly Cause She Let's Me Rub Her Belly
The Proof Is In The Pudding
Have you ever wondered why you see plain or even butt ugly women with a gaggle of
beautiful children? Most might say it's because they are more accessible that finer women. Not true. Many
men have the foolish tendency to believe that an ugly woman is a better partner due to urban myths like they complain
less or they are needier than finer women. Neither is true. Plain and fugly women have more issues related to
self esteem than finer women. They will put a man through much more than a more self assured woman, in an effort
to prove that a man truly cares for them. Plain/fugly women require more reassurance and are far more demanding than
their finer counterparts. In plain/fugly women's defense, they may possess "hidden talent"; i.e. certain "proclivities"
that cause them to be especially adept in matters sexual. When you're number 2, you try harder.
I have Duke Ellington's disease. I find myself hopelessly attracted to "odd" looking women. Attracted, though
I may be, I have had little success in securing one. Odd looking women are very suspicious of me. They simple
don't believe that I might be hopelessly attracted to them. Being perceived as better looking than some of the women
I've attempted to date has worked against me, all my adult life. Plain or odd looking women tend not to take my advances
seriously. These factors, in part, are some of the reasons that I wait to "get chose". If I am lucky, the woman
doing the choosing is also sexually exciting to me.
Quest For Fire
I've met some women that "make my cells get hard!". When they get in "my space", I become physically
aroused. Eastern folklore says there is a 3 foot sphere or "bubble" that surrounds each person. If you know what
you are doing, anyone that ventures inside your sphere is suseptible to your influence. That's why most people stand
at least an arms lenght away from you when dealing with you, least they be unduly influenced, by you!
When I meet someone that I'm attracted to, I know it the moment we get close. When our lips meet, there is fire,
our bodies tremble with excitement. The first sex is a little awkward but always good.
I have been successful a handful of times at securing that cellularly exciting woman as a lover. I have found that
I have to feign disinterest toward the women I am most attracted to! That feeling of cellular excitement does not
occur in isolation. If you are feeling it, the other person is feeling it too. The synergy is so great, it almost
takes you over. Most people don't like feeling out of control. Loss of control is a scary place. We will
ride a roller coaster or go to a horror film because we volunteer ourselves into those situations but we don't like being
taken by surprise in the real world.
Encountering another physical entity and becoming overwhelmed by the synergy that you and that person create is
more than most people can tolerate on a sustained basis.
As we age, the notion of passion becomes vague. Often what we excuse as passion is a very controlled ritual that
we engage the unsuspecting in. When I was younger, I thought aging would diminish the level of excitement I
experienced. The opposite has actually occurred. At this point, in life, I find myself much more in touch with
my sexual personae. It makes some people uncomfortable.
Standing At The Precipice
After a few glasses of wine, my friend, The Dragon Lady has repeatedly threatened to whip my naked ass and make me eat
her panties! After the 3rd or 4th time she made the threat, I consented to the torture. As the words fell from
my lips, she made an "about face" and reneged. I saw her eyes change from serpentine to deerintheheadlights in a
nanosecond! The idea of having an equal partner in her passion play-that would not be securely handcuffed to a bed and
garroted-had zero appeal to her. Fear of loss of control, in matters sexual, may be the primary reason many individuals
never achieve orgasimus maximus. Had I feigned fear, Dragon Lady's panties would have been ringing wet, by the time
she removed them to stuff them in my mouth.
Why We Seldom Choose Wisely
Most adults like to feel like they are in charge of their lives. Allowing your
senses to be overwhelmed invokes primal fear in people. I like it when the synergy between me and a woman drives
us a little crazy. It does not always make for a secure relationship, in fact, it increases the volatility of the
situation. Personally, I'd rather be insecure and loving every minute of it than to be "in control" of a given situation
and dread every calculated encounter.
Master My Johnson
The key to true sexual gratification is release of inhibition and confidence in your partner(s). Please
think about this before you're too old to do anything about it.
*"Watoo Wasuri" is Beautiful People in Swahili